BEL MOONEY: My lover is torn between her kids and me 

It won’t ever be easy, but in your place I think I might cling to that hope. But if you can’t, then in your position you might consider moving back to be near your own loving family right away, and start againDear BelAfter 25 years of marriage (and two daughters, aged 24 and 22) I thought I was bi-sexual, then later realised I was gay and met someone on a bisexual support forum. She and I both separated from our husbands and had the most incredible, long-distance relationship.I came out...