What to Do When You Don’t Like Your Stepfather-to-Be

A reader is (rightly) troubled by her mother’s fiancé’s jealous behavior. But can she tell her that?

Dear Sugars,My mom and her new fiancé have been together three years. On paper, he’s a great match for her. But he’s revealed himself as jealous and controlling. I once told my mom about a restaurant I visited, for example. When she replied that her college boyfriend owned the restaurant, her fiancé threw a temper tantrum.He’s also inexplicably jealous of my dad. He can’t be in the same room as...