November 14, 2017 11:21 GMT by dailymail.co.uk

Chanelle Hayes reveals she begged ex Ryan to take her back

The 30-year-old former Big Brother star, who is already mother to Blakeley with ex Matthew Bates, gave an incredibly emotional interview

She has been left heartbroken after her boyfriend Ryan Oates of 18 months dumped her just a month after she gave birth to their son. 

And new mum Chanelle Hayes has now spoken out about her devastating few weeks, as she confessed to New Magazine that she begged the PE teacher to take her back while also admitting she has 'no self-respect' left in her body.

The 30-year-old former Big Brother star, who is already mother to Blakeley, seven, with ex Matthew Bates, gave an emotional interview in which she confirmed she would never have another child due to her fears of another man leaving her.

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Tough times: New mum Chanelle Hayes has now spoken out about her devastating few weeks, as she confessed to New Magazine that she begged the Ryan Oates to take her back while also admitting she has 'no self-respect' left in her body

Tough times: New mum Chanelle Hayes has now spoken out about her devastating few weeks, as she confessed to New Magazine that she begged the Ryan Oates to take her back while also admitting she has 'no self-respect' left in her body

Chanelle's forray in to new motherhood with baby Frankie has been far from blissful as she has been candid about her devastation over Ryan's decision to leave her. 

In her latest heartbreaking chat, the Wakefield-born beauty revealed she would never have another child due to the fact she has fallen into 'a pattern' of men leaving her after she has given birth. 

She said: 'I've got no self-respect left in my body. I've begged so much it's embarrassing. I feel humiliated. (No, I won't have more children) because it's a pattern. Somebody else will leave me and what would be the point in that?' 

Her devastating words truly proved her pain, as she also revealed Ryan blamed her for the whole situation before she broke down and revealed he has kicked her out. 

Speaking out: The 30-year-old former Big Brother star, who is already mother to Blakeley with ex Matthew Bates, gave an incredibly emotional interview in which she confirmed she would never have another child due to her fears of another man leaving her

Speaking out: The 30-year-old former Big Brother star, who is already mother to Blakeley with ex Matthew Bates, gave an incredibly emotional interview in which she confirmed she would never have another child due to her fears of another man leaving her

She recently took to social media to hit out at her ex Ryan in the wake of their shock split. And now Chanelle has vowed to lose four stone two months after welcoming her son Frankie with her former beau.

The star - who was left devastated after Ryan walked out on her two months after giving birth to their child - has reportedly signed up with Celebrity Slim diet to aid her weight loss transformation.

An insider close to the reality star told MailOnline that Chanelle insisted that she's determined to transform her life in the wake of her personal woes.

The source said: 'Chanelle is determined to lose the weight now that Frankie has come along. She has been very open about her pregnancy struggles and she is now focusing on getting back to her former, slimmer frame.

The insider added: 'Once Chanelle sets her mind at accomplishing something, there's no stopping her. She will work hard to make sure she loses her four stone goal.'

In the past: The Big Brother alum - who was left devastated after Ryan walked out on her two months after giving birth to their child - has reportedly signed up with Celebrity Slim diet to aid her weight loss transformation (Pictured in 2007)

In the past: The Big Brother alum - who was left devastated after Ryan walked out on her two months after giving birth to their child - has reportedly signed up with Celebrity Slim diet to aid her weight loss transformation (Pictured in 2007)

Confidence: Chanelle pictured left pregnant earlier this summer and pictured right in 2007
Confidence: Chanelle pictured left pregnant earlier this summer and pictured right in 2007

Confidence: Chanelle pictured left pregnant earlier this summer and pictured right in 2007

The revelation comes more than a year after she slammed Phillip Schofield for enquiring whether she's eyeing the possibility of releasing a weight loss DVD.

'It does my head in!' she told new! in August 2016 as she discussed the accusations.

Explaining that she was far too busy looking after her elder son Blakely, now seven, to hit the gym every day, she added: 'I expect an apology from Phillip Schofield when it comes to January 1!'

Her comments were in reference to her appearance on This Morning in April of last year, when Phillip and This Morning co-host Holly Willoughby seemed unconvinced that she had gained weight without an ulterior motive.

Discussing a set of bikini shots that first alerted the public to Chanelle's curvaceous new shape, Holly asked: 'Who took the photos? They look very close up. The pictures are very clear.'

Not The One: An insider close to the reality star told MailOnline that Chanelle insisted that she's determined to transform her life in the wake of her split from Ryan Oates

Not The One: An insider close to the reality star told MailOnline that Chanelle insisted that she's determined to transform her life in the wake of her split from Ryan Oates

Phillip added: 'I suppose it doesn't help matters when you tweet saying 'If someone offered me a DVD deal I would jump at the chance. Can you promise you didn't put on the weight just to get a DVD deal?'

Despite quipping that she 'wouldn't break even after spending all her money on pizzas and doughnuts,' the star later admitted that she wouldn't say no if she was approached.

'If I wanted to lose weight in the future and someone offered me a DVD, I would jump at the chance. I wouldn't turn it down,' she explained. 'Now, I'm a plus-sized model and I sell cakes and eat them. Anything like that is a bonus. I would consider it. I would make sure it was achievable for someone like me.'

The star was also asked about money she had previously earned promoting slimming pills.

Slammed: Last year, Chanelle slammed Phillip Schofield for enquiring whether she's eyeing the release of a weight loss DVD. He is pictured with his This Morning co-host Holly Willoughby

Slammed: Last year, Chanelle slammed Phillip Schofield for enquiring whether she's eyeing the release of a weight loss DVD. He is pictured with his This Morning co-host Holly Willoughby

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Chanelle admitted that she took part in a slimming deal in the past but she didn't follow the plan given to her in order to lose weight because it was not achievable.

Following the awkward exchange, Phillip warned: 'We are going to be saving this footage and we will play it if you sit here at Christmas and you're a size eight!' 

Her new weightloss goal comes after she revealed to The Sun Online that she focused on becoming a healthier mum to her boys Blakely and Frankie.

She said: 'I've always yo-yo'd with my weight, but I am so determined to lose weight and become a healthier mum to Blakely and Frankie. I very rarely get time to exercise, which is why the Celebrity Slim programme works so well.' 

The comments come after Chanelle took to Twitter on Friday evening and Saturday morning to hit out at her ex Ryan following their devastating split, two months after she gave birth. 

Over: Chanelle took to Twitter last week to hit out at her ex Ryan following their devastating split two months after she gave birth

Over: Chanelle took to Twitter last week to hit out at her ex Ryan following their devastating split two months after she gave birth

The former Big Brother star claimed the PE teacher had refused to look after their son Frankie, henceforth preventing her from celebrating her 30th birthday on Saturday - leading to her fuming: 'No, you’re not a babysitter. You’re a DAD!' 

Earlier this month, Chanelle, who is also mum Blakely, seven, with former beau Matthew Bates, confirmed Ryan had ended their 18-month long relationship just two months after giving birth to their son.

Chanelle has made no secret on social media about her personal struggles and chose to make her grievances with Ryan extremely public on Friday and Saturday.

She penned: 'My 30th tomorrow, can’t have a birthday night out with my friends because my ex boyfriend won’t have the children as he’s decided he’s going out and has plans I swear to god though #horrid...  

Hold me close: The former Big Brother star claimed the PE teacher had refused to look after their son Frankie, henceforth preventing her from celebrating her 30th birthday - leading to her fuming: 'No, you’re not a babysitter. You’re a DAD!'

Hold me close: The former Big Brother star claimed the PE teacher had refused to look after their son Frankie, henceforth preventing her from celebrating her 30th birthday - leading to her fuming: 'No, you’re not a babysitter. You’re a DAD!'

'Wouldn’t mind, but after walking out on his newborn baby you’d have thought he would have jumped at the chance of a night with him! Obviously only when it suits him #whataguy... 

'Now it’s even an issue for me to go to see my parents and my friends! I need to be back at 6pm because he has plans and he isn’t my babysitter. So as my mum works on a Saturday I won’t get to even see her! Scum of the earth. #rage...

'Comes in demanding me to make Frankie’s bottles up for him, tells me off for a Pap being outside! How is that my fault?! Tells me I will be back for 6 as he isn’t my babysitter and that it doesn’t matter my friends have arranged a surprise dinner for me as he has plans. VILE... 

Fuming: She penned: 'My 30th tomorrow, can’t have a birthday night out with my friends because my ex boyfriend won’t have the children as he’s decided he’s going out and has plans I swear to god though #horrid'

Fuming: She penned: 'My 30th tomorrow, can’t have a birthday night out with my friends because my ex boyfriend won’t have the children as he’s decided he’s going out and has plans I swear to god though #horrid'

'So when I told him I would have to take the kids with me if he couldn’t have them slightly later for my birthday he says I’m not allowed to take them!! I can’t win!! Totally out to ruin my day. Awkward nasty person... No, you’re not a babysitter. You’re a DAD. Or is that just when it suits you?! #notgotaclue #draggedupclearly

Atop her rant, Chanelle shared a heartfelt message with social media followers on Wednesday evening. Taking to Instagram, the star gave an insight into the inner-turmoil she's suffered in the days following her split with Ryan. 

Posting the emotional message 'I'm trying to keep it together with a smile on my face and my head held high, but the truth is I am dying from the inside,' Chanelle appeared to suggest she was not coping well. 

The update comes after Chanelle revealed boyfriend of 18 months Ryan - the father of her son Frankie - has 'left her', just over two months since she gave birth.

Emotional: The update comes after Chanelle revealed Ryan has 'left her', just over two months since she gave birth

Emotional: The update comes after Chanelle revealed Ryan has 'left her', just over two months since she gave birth

Taking to Twitter , she made fans aware of her home situation as she revealed she had a confrontation with the PE teacher this weekend.

She wrote: 'When (Ryan) drops your child off and you basically beg him to sort your family out but he tells you his family&friends have told him he should have left me even sooner than he did! What a lovely bunch of people.

'I’ve met some mean people in my time but never actually thought someone was evil until just lately.'

She also added a meme on Instagram, which said phrases including: 'If he's the right guy, he won't leave.'

Pain: She also added a meme on Instagram, which said phrases including: 'If he's the right guy, he won't leave.'

Pain: She also added a meme on Instagram, which said phrases including: 'If he's the right guy, he won't leave.'

They initially met on dating site Tinder, and Chanelle insisted he was the perfect boyfriend.

She told The Sun Online: 'We ended up getting drunk and going on a proper night out in Wakefield, it was really, really good. He’s brilliant with my family and Blakely adores him!'

The Big Brother star has had a chequered dating history; she sparked up an ill-fated romance with Ziggy on the show before dating Jade Goody's widower Jack Tweed between 2010 to 2013.

She added that she thought she had finally found The One, insisting: 'I changed my type of men, it was getting me nowhere. Now I’m somewhere and I’m really happy – it’s brilliant!'

Chequered: The Big Brother star has had a chequered dating history; she sparked up an ill-fated romance with Ziggy on the show before dating Jade Goody's widower Jack Tweed between 2010 to 2013

Chequered: The Big Brother star has had a chequered dating history; she sparked up an ill-fated romance with Ziggy on the show before dating Jade Goody's widower Jack Tweed between 2010 to 2013

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